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How do you describe "our type of fatigue" ?

Started by lynnmarie219, June 14, 2009, 10:44:05 AM

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A66eyroad

This is a great thread --- I'm so glad you brought it back!

I often wake up with what I call the "hangover-carsick-flu." In fact, as I said previously, before my diagnosis I thought perhaps I had become such a terrible alcoholic that I got a three-day hangover from a single glass of wine. Or no wine.

Walking feels like I'm in a swift river up to my hips, and I'm trying to walk against the current. It takes everything I have to stay upright, let alone to move forward. I often trip over my own feet.

I'd use a cane to help me keep my balance, but my arms are as useless as my legs. Besides, I can't even open the milk jug, let alone hang onto a piece of metal.

I also have brain drain. My husband and I went to see a movie, and when it was over he started talking about a particular scene --- and I didn't remember having seen it. That was scary.
Female, 61
Sjogrens, UCTD, and subacute cutaneous lupus. Flu-like symptoms, mouth & nasal ulcers, itchy rash, high cholesterol, headache, earache, tinnitis, dizziness. Hangover-like nausea, especially in the a.m.
Plaquenil, Atabrine, DHEA, Aleve, Evoxac, Allegra/Benedryl, esomeprazole.

Narablueeyes

Like somebody unplugged me.  Plain and simple.  Unplug, go into sleep mode. 

DragonflyC

My rheum told me to explain it to people as, "It's like always having the flu."

Narablueeyes

Quote from: DragonflyC on October 13, 2011, 01:00:27 PM
My rheum told me to explain it to people as, "It's like always having the flu."

That's exactly how my pain feels!  But my fatigue, like I said above, is like I've been unplugged.

lynnmarie219

These are more great descriptions...thanks for the input everyone! I guess I was too late to start a new thread so we can continue right here...lol!

It's so difficult to describe our fatigue to others, that's why I started this quite a while ago...people say...yeah I understand...I'm tired too...but its NOT the same as just being tired or sleepy. It is much more than that.

Sometimes when I'm so tired I can actually feel my eyeballs rolling up in my head trying to keep them open. (Not good in certain circumstances like when I am at work).  ;)

Meld256

These are good descriptions; we have some creative-thinking people around here!  ;)

A66ey,
Yes, the feeling of walking in a swift river; very good.  And the milk jug and I have had fights recently.  ;) A couple of weeks ago I could NOT get into a new jug of bleach.

When my husband saw the jug later, it had a gash in the side near the top I'd taken a steak knife to, and he asked what IT did to deserve that?    ;D I told him it annoyed me and I had to "hack" into it.

A66eyroad

Meld, I have more trouble opening bottles and jars than anything. At home I've got a wonderful jar-opening gizmo made by OXO with what looks like two saw blades in a V-shape that I can open just about anything with. But the other day I was here at work trying to fix my lunch. I couldn't get a mayo jar opened and I asked one of the guys here to help me. He thought it was going to be something tough to open so he put his whole manly strength to it --- and *whoop!* it opened so easily he was shocked and nearly dropped it on the floor. I don't know who felt sillier.
Female, 61
Sjogrens, UCTD, and subacute cutaneous lupus. Flu-like symptoms, mouth & nasal ulcers, itchy rash, high cholesterol, headache, earache, tinnitis, dizziness. Hangover-like nausea, especially in the a.m.
Plaquenil, Atabrine, DHEA, Aleve, Evoxac, Allegra/Benedryl, esomeprazole.

Bonnie

Narablueyes and dragonfly it is like being unplugged or having flu.  I tell everyone it is like having my batteries taken out.

Narablueeyes

Quote from: Meld256 on October 13, 2011, 10:03:30 PM
These are good descriptions; we have some creative-thinking people around here!  ;)

A66ey,
Yes, the feeling of walking in a swift river; very good.  And the milk jug and I have had fights recently.  ;) A couple of weeks ago I could NOT get into a new jug of bleach.

When my husband saw the jug later, it had a gash in the side near the top I'd taken a steak knife to, and he asked what IT did to deserve that?    ;D I told him it annoyed me and I had to "hack" into it.

I'm starting to drop stuff and trip up more.  I like the steak knife to the jug!!  I've taken a hammer to boxes and other garbage to get my frustrations out.

quilt4fun

Fatigue--like being in slow motion. Every step is  a chore and my brain is a step behind. My recliner is my favorite spot. I can sit there for an hour at a time and do absolutely nothing; and don't ask what's on TV, 'cause I won't be able to tell you.
Age 73. PSS, Gerd, Kidney stones,  dry eyes, dry skin, borderline high cholesterol, osteoporosis. lung scar tissue, calcinosis cutis.                Taking:  Plaquenil, Meloxicam, protonix, potassium citrate, ,calcium+D, Livalo, genteel PM,  Dry Eye Omega.and ,Xiidra and Restatis

Narablueeyes

Quote from: quilt4fun on October 14, 2011, 11:06:42 AM
Fatigue--like being in slow motion. Every step is  a chore and my brain is a step behind. My recliner is my favorite spot. I can sit there for an hour at a time and do absolutely nothing; and don't ask what's on TV, 'cause I won't be able to tell you.

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Katybarstool

Katita

I understand your concern about work; I only recently cut back to four days a week. This means I work 2 days, then have a rest day, then work another 2 days, and then it's the weekend. It took a lot of courage to ask for these hours, but believe me, I'm beginning to feel like I am getting my life back. In fact, I don't honestly know how I managed to work 5 consecutive days.

Go for it!

Hugs
Kathyx

itssue

To me when the fatigue hits I'm "Road Kill"   :'(

bloodless

Wow! Katy I'm impressed. It would take a lot of courage to ask for less hours. I'm glad they gave it to you!

I agree with the flu analogy!
I miss the good old days. Things were more like they used to be back then.

Sjogrens, Lupus, Fibro, GERD

Meld256

Kathy,

I'm so glad your new schedule is helping.  Hope you are enjoying every "Kathy Day" in mid-week!  ;)