Off Topic, life just isn't fair

[Linda196]

Dear Billye, my thoughts are with you and your aunt.

Think how much better it is that she "crashed" while in medical care, not at home, possibly alone. That in itself gives her a better chance. Think of the doctor who, because of your cousin's husband's question will now think of his own mother whenever he makes a decision regarding your aunt's care, and possibly give that little extra bit of caring. Think of how you are supporting her family, and how much they appreciate you, even if you can't be right there.

I wouldn't think of you "thriving on drama", but you definitely "shine through stress".

[Shari]

Everything Linda said!!!  hee hee

Billye~~It seems that stressful things come in lumps~~~then everything gets all smooth and creamy for a bit.  I hope you have a LONG smooth time coming your way.  I'll give up mine to you~~

Unfortunately a young man who's folks live near me took his own life on Wed. night.  The day and time of the service has not been decided and I do not look forward to going of course.  His Mom has had such a hard time in the last couple of years and now this.

I think maybe suicide either needs to be talked about in high school like one would have a health class.  Get real about it etc.

Billye~~bless you   ~~Shari~~

[lynnmarie219]

(((((((((((Billye)))))))))) You, your aunt, the rest of your family, and of course your little scared doggie  are all in my thoughts and prayers. I hope things get better for you soon....your  long overdue for some "better times" and some peaceful rest and quiet!   

Please take of yourself......

[LenV]

I can't believe you all let me unload like you did and still support me!  It has been hard.  But for some reason I just keep ticking along like the energizer bunny.

I'm calling my family tomorrow to see how my Aunt is doing.  I have felt today that no news is good news.  Linda ... you are right, I'm so glad she was at the hospital when this happened. 

I made it thru the window dressings, did not stay for the downtown celebration but I know it will be good because everyone has waited on this for a very long time.  My husband slept with Cami last night and I got a full night's sleep.  Tonight it's my turn.

Pooh..the drops don't seem to be doing much good.  Monday, I'm taking her to the vet.  Time for medical intervention.  She just will not be by herself without an anxiety attack.

Shari..I'm so sorry to hear of another suicide in a young person.  I just don't think our world prepares our young ones for life any more.  And I don't know what can be done  to make their lives better.  The world is in such a turmoil now.

Thanks all of you for your incouraging posts.  You sure helped me get thru this one.  Sometimes you just need to vent.  I hope I can help some of you thru your difficult periods.

Billye