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I miss my mama

Started by season, May 29, 2012, 09:01:11 PM

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Daisy1234

Season,

I'm sending you many heartfelt prayers and much sympathy.  You have suffered a terrible shock and your mind and body must be reeling to lose your very special Mother so unexpectedly. 

Do know however, that a mother's love never diminishes and that neither time nor distance, nor eternity will ever keep it from you.  Go ahead and talk to your Mama, even now she will hear you. 

Hugs,
Daisy

eye2dry

Season....I am sorry you have lost your mother.....but how
fortunate you are to have a sister.

please take care...thinking of you


eye2dry

quietdynamics

I am sorry for the lose to you and your sister, but, so happy that your Mom had your sister living next her.

I pray, pray, pray that next year we will have my Mom living with us (find a home we can convert into a mother/daughter) ....we are working on it.  In the meantime I am trying to spend some nights at Moms and go out with her a bit....she wears me out. She can do more than me and she is 82....lol

I will tell you in honesty, I am happy that your Mother was able to pass in her own home.

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JakeL

I am sorry for your loss. Stay Strong. I am sure you will get through this tough time.

Joe S.

I know what I went through when mom died. She is still on my mind. Please allow yourself time to grieve.
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susanep

Season, I am so so sorry to hear that your sweet dear mother passed on. I am still struggling with this since mom passed away March 13, 2012.

You said it correctly honey, that there are no words for what one feels. No words at all.

I have prayed for you, and The Lord to give you his comfort, and the peace that only he can give you.

Pm me anytime if you just need to talk. At night sometimes I talk to mom by typing my feelings of the events of the day or week to her. It's not my only way, but one way.

God Bless You and Your Family
susanep :'(
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Meld256

Oh, season.  I'm sorry I'm just now reading about your dear mother's passing.

My heart goes out to you. When someone passes unexpectedly, it's so very difficult.  Thank you for letting us know...I pray for your strength in the next days ahead.

As said, when we lose our mother, there are no words for what one feels. As Daisy put so well, remember that a mother's love knows no bounds. She must be watching over you still.

Please know that we care for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

season

I want to thank everyone for your kindness. It has been so difficult. I feel so numb.

About a week ago, I was washing dishes and it just popped into my mind that I should call my mother and tell her that I loved her. When she answered the phone, I started to cry and told her that I loved her. We had the most wonderful conversation. I am so thankful for that. It was surely meant to be. We should follow our intuition.

I could tell my mother anything when I was troubled. Sometimes she would give me an answer that I didn't like but that is what mom's should do. "Just be honest and ready to listen."

Cricket

It is a very difficult time, greving is a long process!

After my parents passed (their birthdays a day apart) my kids and grand kids were all missing them so much that the day between the birthdays we all wrote notes to them and got balloons attached our notes, went to cemetery and let them go to heaven.  It helped the little ones a lot, we still do this several times a year.  I often wonder if they came down in someone's yard what they thought!

I often write my mom and dad and put the letters in a special box, it seems to help to put it on paper and is a release of grief for the moment.

Keeping you in my thoughts.
Cricket
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