please pray for me and my parents too

[Virgi]

Today I took a BIG STEP - went to the Government Attorneys at the Public Ministry of Prosecution and put a complaint about how both my parents treat me - unfortunately had to do it - ive been having psychiatric problems since im 9 yrs old due to abuse and violence at home - had become independent away from home but Sjogrens and Fibromyalgia took that away from me and had to come back to live with them - the abuse doesnt stop and when I stand up to them I get a guilt trip from their part or am insulted - also they dont believe my symptoms or help me with medical costs - insurance company is not covering me and im going to the government hospitals which are not good in the city i live in - i hope that this helps my parent open their eyes and accept Im psychiatrically disabled because of them and health disabled because of Sjogrens -

all I want is to be treated with respect and have the accomodations necessary to live with Fibro and Sjogrens - a little love wouldnt hurt either - Id love to see the smile I get from strangers when they hear my situation and also hear the comforting words from friends from my parents - this is the last straw if that doesnt work then I will just not consider them my parents anymore.

Yes I have to be independent but all my life I do things on my own for myself but it is not fair that the little energy I have from the illness is put down by them -

Thank you for reading my post. - please pray for me - and my parents too.

Virgi

[Narablueeyes]

Virgi, bless your heart!  You are so courageous for taking a stand!!  You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect - ESPECIALLY from your parents.  Stand tall and don't EVER give in.  You are worthy!!  You'll be in my thoughts and meditations daily.

[Scottietottie]

Positive thoughts for you Virgi.

I hope you get the care and respect that you deserve.

Take care - Scottie 

[4Kids]

hugs to you, over and over

[Dolly Dimples]

  Virgi, this is drastic action you are having to take against your parent's,
   I do hope someone will talk to them and make them see that you need their support..

Many people here are accused of being malingerer's by friends and family, and are not believed to have an illness or complaint which requires help and understanding. I do hope that good will result from your action,
                                                  Please let us know the outcome,   bless you , Dolly
                                                       

[Jorja]

Bless your heart.  I am so sorry you are having to go thru this.  Our parents should want to be there for us, regardless how old we are.  Unfortunately, it doesn't always happen that way.  I will be praying that they realize the pain you are in and begin helping out as well as expressing their love towards you.  I've received tons of support and love from folks on this site and you will too.  Hugs to you from a fellow sufferer.

[quilt4fun]

Virgi,
    My oh my.  I'm sorry that the situation has gotten to this point.  You are in my prayers for strength, physically and emotionally; I pray that someone will be there to touch your parents hearts. 

[Virgi]

Dear All lovely friends:
Thank you so much for the support and warm words. I?ll keep you posted of how it goes. This might take weeks , months and lets not hope years.
I do want things at home to be better. There is too much resentment in our hearts. And it is not good for my health. Neither for their health.

I appreciate truly and feel a full heart when reading your posts.
God Bless you,

Virginia M.

[Still in the hunt]

Keep fighting,, thats all you can do,, never give in,,

[Catilee2]

Dear Virgi,
     I will keep you and your parents in my prayers. What you are doing takes great courage. What you are asking us to do shows a heart of compassion.
God Bless you and your family and may God restore loving relationships to you and your parents.

Catilee 2

[Virgi]

Thank you for all your warm words and thoughts - I deeply appreciate your prayers for us - I am scared about what will happen in many ways but yes hoping for the best.
Wish you all a great weekend