Truth and lies and bladder cancer

[Confused]

 I finally made it far enough off of this flare to put down A MAJOR question before they KILL my husband.

My husband was given 3 names he could talk to.  Each name equals one procedure he could have done.  That is it it.  Do not listen to anyone on the intranet as you will get the wrong answers.

Give me who he needs to talk to.  NOT a name per say but what organization is real.  No lies.  No games.

Doctors and lawyers cover for each other!  This is the absolute truth.  After half my brothers face was paralyzed a lawyer said we would have to go out of town to get a lawyer and get doctors to testify as the ones where I lived all socialized and so no way were they going to go against each other.  And doctors and hospitals have deep pockets. 

Right now I need who to talk with ASAP.

Can you,  will you, actually help?

[meirish]

I am so sorry that you are having this problem. Life is just hard in the medical world lately. I don't know where you have been but I would call the American Cancer bum. in your area or the area you desire to go for treatment. They should have a list of doctors who specialize in your husbands cancer.

The best referral I ever got was when I was like you at the end of my rope and sick of all the doctors at my clinic. I got on line and found a hot line at the hospital I usually went to in the cities and got a name. The doctor I was sent to was great as was the clinic. This doctor was filling in for ER calls and I was referred to a new doctor at this clinic. That was in 1997 and he is still my doctor and has been involved in my care a lot for many years. Good luck. Prayers and thoughts are with you both. meirish