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Started by Cricket, April 04, 2012, 12:07:07 PM

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Cricket

April 04, 2012, 12:07:07 PM
My daughter was 7 weeks pregnant and today has had a miscarriage.  This is her third miscarriage.

She does have two girls age 3 and 1.

My heart breaks for her and  for us as grandparents.  It is such a loss for all of us.  Monday she had a ultrasound and heard the baby's heart beat.

I am sorry I can not write anymore now, I can not see the computer through the tears.
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Katybarstool

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April 04, 2012, 12:42:46 PM
Cricket

I'm so sorry to read your news. I will keep your daughter and her family in my prayers.

God bless
Kathyx

olmphoto2

#2
April 04, 2012, 01:11:01 PM
( ((( ( Joanie and family ) ))) ) 

Mary Ann in Wisconsin

"A man will be imprisoned in a room with a door that is unlocked and opens inwards as long as it does not occur to him to pull rather than push." 
          Ludwig Wittgenstein

genko_b

#3
April 04, 2012, 01:41:15 PM
So sorry to hear about your daughter's miscarriage. My heart goes out to all of you.

Take care,

Genko

Carolina

#4
April 04, 2012, 02:04:03 PM
Dear Cricket,

All my love to you and yours.

Hugs
Elaine
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Bucky

#5
April 04, 2012, 03:06:51 PM
Cricket - I'm so sorry for your daughter's loss and the loss for your family. 

I had had a miscarriage early in my pregnancy after hearing the babies heartbeat too.  My head told me, it was for the best, but my heart had a harder time.    :'(

May you all be comforted as you grieve your loss.

Hugs,
Bucky
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Cricket

#6
April 04, 2012, 06:53:28 PM
Thank You everyone for your prayers and kind words.
Female 64 yrs. old with:~Lymphoma ~SJS~, Fibro, Neuropathy, Spinal  Stenosis, Degenerative Discs, Shingles Arthritis, Hypo-thyroid.
Rituxan, Synthroid, Lopressor, Vasotec, Zantac, Zyrtec, evoxac, Lexapro, Neurotin, Ambien, Zanaflex, Voltarm, Vicodin, fish oil, Centrum vit.,  CoQ10, vit. D, Miralax

MissyLouWho?

#7
April 04, 2012, 07:23:47 PM
Cricket, I am so sorry for your loss.  I have no idea why things happen sometimes.  It makes no sense.  I had a hard time with mine too.  I send you many hugs, prayers and positive thought for all of you  :)

Crymeariver

#8
April 04, 2012, 07:32:35 PM
So sorry to hear that.  Best wishes to your daughter and her hubby.

A66eyroad

#9
April 05, 2012, 09:19:52 AM
((((Joanie))))  ((((Joanie's daughter))))   :'(
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Meld256

#10
April 05, 2012, 03:49:12 PM
Cricket,

I'm so sorry to read your sad news.  My heart goes out to you, your daughter and her husband.

As a grandmother who has lost a grandchild early like this to miscarriage and one who's lost a granddaughter at one year old, I can relate to your pain.  Of course, your daughter's pain is raw, but I believe many people don't think of the grandparents and the burden of loss they bear. 

We grieve for the grandchild lost, and we grieve for our children who are in pain.  We can sometimes feel helpless to comfort them.  It's not like when they were little and we could fix it. 
Even so, I want to give you encouragement.  Listening to your daughter and letting her grieve may be the best you can do, and I wish you strength as you comfort her.

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Melinda
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