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Title: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on March 28, 2017, 09:43:13 AM
I expect that, as I get used to this diagnosis, I'll have a few things to post here.

Today, I am mourning wheat. My doctor suggested I check for wheat, dairy, and soy allergies. Since I had been (sort of for the heck of it) eating gluten free for the last two weeks, it was very obvious last night and today that re-adding wheat was a BAD idea. I never knew that I felt bad because of wheat, because I never ever took a break from eating it before to find out.

The reaction was dramatic enough that I'm cutting short the three day experiment after 12 hours. I can't face eating any more now.

Hubby and I had some grave faces last night as my wheat sensitivity began to sink in. He's a passionate baker of breads, muffins, and cookies. He assures me that there is no way to make a pizza dough as good as his current one without wheat/gluten.

I believe it will be worth giving up wheat to feel better (I felt better the last two weeks than I had in years, and even stopped taking my nightly allegra), but I am really, really going to miss it.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Poppy on March 28, 2017, 10:31:10 AM
What were your symptoms Anne?
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on March 28, 2017, 10:45:27 AM
Nausea, gas, bloating, cramping, diarrhea, runny nose. Last night I had palpitations. Today, I started to get itchy skin, so i took an antihistamine. No rash though.

I had wheat in three meals since the doctor suggested checking for sensitivity, and each time I felt worse. Declaring an early end to this experiment and moving on to dairy.

I had gotten so used to the gastrointestinal stuff. I thought it was triggered by anxiety.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Joe S. on March 28, 2017, 10:45:38 AM
My wife does a convention where she cooks for 100 people. Quite a few dishes are vegan, gluten free, or spice free. Gluten free Brownies are one that people rave about. There are a number of various flowers that she uses to cook for special diets. If you look you will find some very good recopies.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on March 28, 2017, 10:58:27 AM
I'm already looking for recipes. Hubby will keep baking with gluten and wheat, but perhaps he'll begin experimenting with alternatives.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: KatyB on March 28, 2017, 01:28:21 PM
I went GF 6 months ago.  I have not noticed any improvement in my symptoms since then, but I have not been brave enough to add it back in as a trial yet!  I definitely have my days when I mourn it.  Miss good pizza and bread.  But--I have gotten used to GF sandwich bread (I like Udi's brand) and have found substitutes for making gravy, etc.  And there are some decent GF pastas, you just have to experiment until you find one you like.
A chef friend of mine makes a pretty good pizza crust that he prebakes (so that it doesn't get soggy), I have asked him for that recipe & will share here if I get it.  King Arthur Flour has great mixes for baked goods (although they are expensive).  I will say that I am probably eating healthier by skipping donuts & other treats, though....

Check out website for Gluten Free Girl, I am sure there are many other good ones as well.

Next up I may need to cut out dairy...and that one will be really really hard for me.   :(


Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: SjoGirl on March 28, 2017, 03:31:30 PM
Oh I am with you. I stopped eating wheat, dairy, corn and soy years ago. I've since added back some corn and a bit of soy, but generally avoid wheat and dairy.

My nose is not running all of the time, I don't feel bloated or gassy all the time, and I'm not constipated as much. FYI there are many GF products on the market now, some quite good. If you have a Trader Joe's nearby they will give you a list of all of their GF products. Amazon is also a good place to look.

I bought a bread maker and made my own GF bread for several years until I decided to cut back on carbs in general. Pamela's makes numerous GF flours which I used. In fact, at church when I made the bread for communion everyone raved about it, GF or not.

Yes, you will mourn, I still do and I occasionally cheat (then regret it). Life and Sjogren's is a series of letting goes, it can get easier if you find good things to fill the void.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: irish on March 28, 2017, 06:47:52 PM
Tell your hubby not to despair. I baked and cooked gluten free for about 36 years. My hubby was suffering when we got married in 1964 and did not get diagnosed with Celiac disease until 1978. I had to start this new regime back in the day when there was absolutely nothing out there made that was gluten free. I had to read every label there was that entered our house.

I don't know how he did it cause there was no bread for many years and even white rice flour was not talked about. He lived on meat, potatoes, vegetables and my fantastic home made gluten free soups that are not that much different.

There are so many foods out there to buy to fill in and so many candies, etc that are labeled better so we know they are gluten free. Go to www.celiac.com and you will find a myriad of information.

I never baked bread because I did not have a really good bread machine and it just took too much time when I was working. Also, I bought the bread 4 cases at a time from Energee foods and froze it so we always hada bread on hand. I will tell you that a lot of the gluten free goodies are better than the ones with wheat.

Aldies carries a lot of gluten free products and their brownie mix is awesome. My whole family hovers around the pan and is sneaking little pieces throughout the afternoon at the lake. Doesn't even need frosting and is really good with ice cream. Yes, there is gluten free ice cream that is pretty much the same way it has been made for years.

I cook potatoes and mash them for a cream base for my soups and it is soooo good. I also keep some potatoes out to cut up and put in the soup, vegetable, potato soup, creamed corn with ham potatoes green onion, you name it.

I learned to bakes cakes and eventually did not need a recipe as they are pretty much all the same. You just add ingredients to jazz them up like mashed peaches, sour cream, snack pudding packs, creamed cream cheese with sugar, nuts, applesauce, the list goes on and on. Go on line and find the recipes that you both like and go for it.

Sweet rice flour makes good cream sauce with mushrooms, butter, etc to pour over chicken, meatballs, etc. My hubby ate very well. The flours are great also, use almond flour, coconut flour in smaller amounts to add flavor and a different texture to cakes. Also, know that brown rice and sorghum flours have a slightly oily base and can take rancid with overlong shelf life. Also, any of the nut flours are very good but also have oils so don't have a long shelf life.

It took me many years but I have a really great pie crust that I now use for all my pies plus have had some good pizza crust recipes. You can buy gluten free pizzas that many parlors now so can buy wheat one and gluten free one and eat what you want, freeze the rest and have another meal.

My hubby, one son and his son (grandson gluten free at age 5) so the boys and their wives are all gluten free with their cooking when they need to be at holidays. Any questions you can pm me. Also, there are more and more people who are having problems with gluten and I have read that the scientists believe that it has something to do with the way the grains are being raised--chemicals and modified seeds. That does sound like a very good possibility. Changes the cell structure of the grains causing more inflammatory reactions. Irish
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Nymph on March 29, 2017, 03:06:24 AM
Anne, I have been gluten free for 5 years. I completely understand mourning wheat. Go ahead.

It IS possible to make some lovely GF baked good. GF Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day is a good one to start with. It takes a while as it is a relearning process but the challenge of it is fun.

Yes, you will have other things to add to this list. It's good and necessary to mourn.

I'm going into a phase where this disease may take other things from me. I know that I'll have to mourn, lose, and reinvent again. It is hard. There are good parts, but it is hard.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: SabbraCadabra on March 30, 2017, 05:48:58 AM
I don't miss wheat, but I do miss the convenience of being able to eat a pizza whenever I want. I also have to do research before we eat out anywhere, but that gets a lot easier after a while.

It's gotten to the point where I tried a burger with a GF bun, and it just seemed wrong to me...the bun is just there to mute the meaty flavors! I usually don't bother with gluten substitutes, because they're so expensive, but sometimes I splurge on snacks. Most GF baked goods I've tried have a way better flavor and texture than wheat flour, IMO.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on April 01, 2017, 05:05:47 AM
Let's add a little dairy to the mourning thread. The dietary experiment continues, and I react to dairy as well, though not as severely. I suspect it's just lactose intolerance (I've taken lactase sporadically for years trying to consume cheese and yummy milk products). I guess I'll find out from my rheumatologist whether she thinks I need to cut the dairy out completely, or whether I can continue to eat it on occasion.

Next to test: soy. I discovered last night that I couldn't have hubby's signature thick hot chocolate because the chocolate contained soy lecithin.  >:( >:( >:(

Yesterday was rough, not just for food. For the first time, I was very, very angry at the fact that for years I have been sick, and no one found the root cause. I usually have felt anger in my life, so feeling real rage was odd for me. I recognize that I took my family and doctors (from childhood) so seriously that when they told me my tests were normal, I took responsibility for my physical state. For decades, I've been sick, and I have thought I was doing it to myself somehow with my thoughts, or by drinking too much coffee, etc. I am sure I participated in prolonging the situation by not mentioning symptoms to doctors that I thought were imaginary or self-inflicted.

I even expressed my anger to my mother that in my childhood and teens, for years, she would respond to my common complaint that my stomach hurt by asking if I was, in fact, hungry. I apologized after I'd had a nap, and fortunately she seems to be understanding why I would be upset. For the first time, she's figuring out what I've been dealing with.

I am especially grateful that she has spearheaded collecting information and reaching out to other family members who may have similar undiagnosed issues. I hope that my experience can spare some of them (especially those who are pre-teens now) from having the same experience.

Still, all in all, and despite my mourning and the muscle fatigue (prednisone?) and bruising, I feel 15x better now than I did two months ago. I'll take being chronically ill and able to enjoy a few things over being mysteriously crazy and taking pleasure in almost nothing.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: warmwaters on April 01, 2017, 10:51:55 AM
Here's some good news on removing the wheat - you already have a baker in the family.  There are many mixes for gf breads and desserts these days. If he feels more adventurous, there are also GF baking cooking books.  And there are many GF products in the stores.

I've also had good GF pizza.  There are at least two pizza places near me that offer GF pizza. It's a thin crust style, and you wouldn't know that it wasn't wheat based.

You also have fun exploring some grains you haven't tried before.  I found a lot of brown rice and liquids recipes I liked.

You should mourn, it is a loss.  But there's some ok news - it's not as horrible as it first feels.

Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: SabbraCadabra on April 02, 2017, 05:27:06 PM
Yes, baking your own is definitely cheaper.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Deb 27 on April 03, 2017, 02:54:09 PM
I think many of us can feel your pain, Ann. Sorry you had such a bad reaction when you tried wheat again.  Do you have a good health food store or Whole Foods near you? They have a lot of gluten free stuff in the larger health food stores.
When I went wheat free, I felt a big change in the pain in my hands and feet. I have a lot of food intolerances along with the wheat like dairy, soy, yeast, to name a few. There were 21 foods that I reacted to! Ugh! I have found that I can have small amounts of wheat without much of a reaction now. I still can 't have nightshades or MSG, those seemed to be the worst.

Good luck!!!! Your husband will find some great new recipes for gluten free goodies!
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on April 03, 2017, 03:21:22 PM
I think my husband is adjusting. He's saying he'll start experimenting with gluten free flour mixes.

I'm finding I am, indeed, lactose intolerant. Not sure whether that means I have to nix dairy for the short (or long) term.

Next test: Soy, which is in everything it seems.

My plan at this point is just to do the "test" diet as recommended by my doctor. If necessary after that, maybe I'll try AIP to see if there are other things giving me trouble.

It is nice not to feel sick to my stomach all the time. I had no idea what "normal" was.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Cheryl on April 04, 2017, 05:53:45 PM
Anne,
I am on day 14 of eating gluten free.  I don't have to reintroduce it to know I'm definitely sensitive to it.  I understand your mourning.   
Cooking and eating are not the same, but my stomach doesn't hurt.  I think my post nasal drip is better, too; I'm not constantly clearing my throat. 
You aren't alone!  I agree with the others that your baker husband will probably come up with some good substitutes for you. Please share when he does!
Hang in there,
Cheryl
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: irish on April 04, 2017, 08:55:55 PM
Just to let you know that my celiac son and his celiac son(my grandson) are lactose intolerant now and have been drinking Almond Breeze and they love it. They drink the unsweetened and have had no trouble using it on their cereal. They are able to buy the 1/2 gallon cartons for about 3$. My penny pinching daughter in law (lol) just about has a heart attack over the price but at least she isn't dealing with their stomach aches any longer. Good luck. Irish
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on April 05, 2017, 04:32:32 AM
Irish, I know you can get Silk almond milk for a good price at Costco. :-)
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Nomad on April 05, 2017, 07:05:35 AM
I'm actually ashamed of the fact that I surely am gluten sensitive and 9 times out of 10 lately, I don't seem to care or do anything about it.

I have the "excuse" that I'm currently on prednisone AND under big time stress.

So...eating what brings me comfort is extraordinarily comforting.

BUT, when I eat healthy and greatly reduce or eliminate gluten, I feel better and even my platelets go up a little (I have low platelets due to ITP...an immune disorder that attacks and kills platelets)

As a side note...Panera Bread Company (restaurant) makes a gluten sensitive chocolate cookie that is out of this world. They call it gluten conscious or something like this. I think they are concerned a tiny bit of gluten might sneak in there and are covering their bottoms. BUT, when I eat it, I never bloat or feel bad in any way...so my guess it either has zero gluten or a minuscule amount. One of the best cookies out there to satisfy a chocolate craving.

I'm only on 8 mgs. of prednisone. When I get to seven (excuses/excuses) I will put my big girl pants on and once again stop the gluten and join you in the mourning.

It is very hard, but I do believe worth it.

Hang in there! And yes, please share any good substitute recipes you and / or your husband come up with! Blessings!
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: DarleneB on April 05, 2017, 08:09:50 AM
IRISH

ALDI sells almond breeze milk for  $1.97
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on April 07, 2017, 09:51:06 AM
I may be reacting to soy, too. It's subtle, but I swear my feet itch more after having a soy milk.

Bummer. If true, I reacted to all three tested foods, wheat, dairy, and soy. Eating will be challenging.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: irish on April 08, 2017, 11:38:33 PM
There was an article on msn.com tonight about the fact that researchers are thinking that viruses may be the culprit in kickstarting the gluten sensitivity. They said that the colon actually contains more viruses than bacteria which is hard to believe. Will be interesting to see what else they learn.

Also, I have to tell you that you will not go hungry in this world today because you need gluten free food. You can go online and check out the gluten free fast food places and pizza places. CAn't eat the hamburger bun, but that isn't so bad when you can have the french fries for the carbs. Also, check out the pop that is gluten free. Most of the most popular pop is GF and there is a ton of candy and candy bars that are gluten free plus chips, popcorn, etc. Also, there are a good many nourishment or snack bars that are gluten free. And do't forget Aldies for a one stop place to pick up cake/brownie mixes plus gf breads/buns. Just a note---none of the GF cake mixes are that great, but if you add a little chopped up peach sauce and a Hunts snack pack to the mix they give more texture and moistness. Adding one mashed banana also gives moisture and improves flavor. Can also add more vanilla to better flavor. Make sure to check out GF vanilla. I get the McCormicks vanilla that is GF and when I can buy a larger jug  (when I have the money) it makes it a little cheaper per ounce and it keeps for a long time. Irish
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Nymph on April 09, 2017, 05:58:13 AM
EnjoyLife brand carries products that are free of all three, and they have chocolate chips!
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on April 09, 2017, 06:57:06 AM
Thanks for the tips! I am certainly eating more thoughtfully now that I'm trying to avoid wheat and dairy. And maybe soy.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: belovedchaos1 on April 16, 2017, 10:20:13 PM
It can be quite fun once you get used to trying with new ingredients! I usually substitute brown rice flour for salty recipes, and tapiola flour for baked goods! Coconut milk and goats cheese are now my go to for dairy! Love the stuff!

I will mourn with you though..  some days it can be really hard. I find it especially hard when being invited for dinner, or over at a friends house.... or going out. Sometimes you don't realize what's in something until you feel it the next day. Ugh. We are here for you.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: SabbraCadabra on April 21, 2017, 06:10:48 AM
Quote from: irish on April 08, 2017, 11:38:33 PM
There was an article on msn.com tonight about the fact that researchers are thinking that viruses may be the culprit in kickstarting the gluten sensitivity.

That's what I was reading back when I suspected that I had become allergic. It said certain things, like viruses and pregnancy, can trigger sudden food allergies. I had a nasty cold shortly before allergy symptoms started showing up.
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: irish on April 21, 2017, 08:39:49 PM
I have to admit that cooking gluten free for over 35 years got to be such a habit that I thought nothing of throwing together a cake without a recipe. Now I don't hardly cook since my hubby passed away. I have forgotten how to cook I think. I read through some of these posts and it made me remember some of the GF food that I used to make. There were some good GF cake recipes over the years that I did use a recipe for plus the apple crisp that was such a hit. I can still cook GF for my son and grandson when I visit. They love the apple crisp and that doesn't need a recipe either. Just throw it together and can change the ingredients every time. It is the apples and brown sugar/cinnamon/butter that really makes it good.

Good cooking to all you new and old(not young and old) GF cooks that are out there. Irish

Do a search for a GF fruit cocktail cake without eggs and uses brown sugar. It is great warm with whipped cream on top.

Another easy and fast dessert is a crust with Rice chez or corn chez plus some butter and sugar. Crust the cereal on a cookie sheet with a rolling pin and add the other ingredients. and mix. Place in bottom of 9 x 13 cake pan and save a little of the cereal topping for the top of the dessert. Bake the cereal crust in the pan for 10 minute or so or until it feels like it has firmed up some. Whatever temp works. I usually start at 300 so I don't burn it. Cool and place vanilla ice cream on the top of this crust in the desired amount. Sprinkle the cereal topping that you saved out over the ice cream. Place in freezer. Take out before serving so that it softens some before cutting into pieces. This is really good and you could add anything you want to change the flavor of the ice cream. Irish
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: AnneNeville on July 13, 2017, 10:16:06 PM
Something new to mourn: looks like I may have an egg sensitivity, too. Ugh!
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Kris29 on July 14, 2017, 07:35:54 AM
Hi Anne,

I'm so sorry you're facing all these changes. I love that you call it mourning because sometimes people try to pass it off as no big deal, and it is a big deal. I've been gluten free for a year, and I will never go back - my daily migraines became once-a-month migraines when I cut out gluten, and my fatigue is so much better. But I still mourn for favorite comfort foods and treasured family recipes (my great-grandmother's angel food cake!). I was an avid baker. I made bread once or twice a week for a while and loved baking cakes, cookies, and muffins. It was about the finished product, but it was also such a comforting process.

Everyone copes differently, but I've pretty much abandoned gluten-free baking. There are some substitutes that are very good in their own right, but they're not the same. And, personally, they just leave me missing the things I loved that much more. Instead, I've tried to create new comfort foods and new rituals. There are some amazing traditional cookies made with nut flours, and my aunt has gotten really into making sorbets and coconut milk-based ice creams that are wonderful. Maybe your husband would enjoy incorporating some of these things into his rotation.

My favorite gluten free recipes are ones that just happen to be gluten free, not ones that have been deliberately tweaked to be that way - does that sentence make sense?  ??? (I have a small Pinterest collection. If you're on Pinterest and want to check it out, send me a message, and I'll send you a link.) But a lot of people really love the substitute stuff too, and there is a ton of it. Aldi and Trader Joe's have already been mentioned, and they have a wide selection and decent prices. Health food stores can have even bigger selections but are usually much pricier too.

And I try to comfort myself with the fact that diet changes are a pretty side effect-free way to feel better! At least they do something for me.  :-\

Good luck!
Title: Re: mourning thread
Post by: Carolina on July 14, 2017, 04:52:49 PM
Dear Anne,

I'm chiming in late, but I developed IBS in the past 6 months.  The 'rumbling' was the first symptom for several months, and I pretty much ignored it.

But suddenly the problem exploded in May, with the IBS-D version (D-diarrhea) and it was exhausting and painful and life changing.  What a surprise at 75!

I did research and discovered the FODMAP elimination plan based on the biology of the small intestine where the problem lies.  Gluten and Lactose are the worst offenders, but several other foods are involved, as well.  A sort of 'strawberries and grapes are OK but cherries are not' "pecans and peanuts are OK but cashews are not"!

The very DAY I avoided the FODMAP foods, my problem almost disappeared!

I have found gluten free bread, and lactose free everything (yogurt, ice-cream, milk, cottage cheese, etc).  But I forgot "not cashews" while we were traveling and paid the price!.

It is a 'food plan' that has instant (for me) reinforcement if I forget what works and what doesn't.

I'm not at the place where I am willing to try to see if I really can't have raisins (for example). Raisins and all dried fruit are part of the FODMAP list.

So far eggs (which are not FODMAP) aren't a problem, nor is the cheese which isn't FODMAP (most hard cheeses are OK). Onions, garlic and mushrooms are OUT of the question, however.  And that is sad for me.

So I gaily have a cheese omelet for breakfast, or lunch or dinner.  but without onions or mushrooms.

I guess I'm not mourning the foods that send me into a tailspin, because the price is so high when I have them.

I'm also now trying the FAST diet, 5:2.  I eat 'normally for 5 days a week, and 'fast' with only 500 calories for two days a week.  I've only had one 'fast day' yesterday, and the next will be Monday (the 'fast' days don't have to be sequential).  I'm hoping this will also help calm my IBS.  and help me reduce my weight.

Ain't life grand?

Regards,  Elaine