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Title: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: sass on July 18, 2012, 04:12:04 PM
I know it is the meds and some personal stuff, but all I have done all day is lay in my jammies, in my bed and cry.

Had argument with husband!  Goon!

Dad thinks he needs to move out, that he is a bother to my husband!  He overheard something.

Don't care right now to do anything else..I really wish I had somebody just to hold me!!
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: rudytudy on July 18, 2012, 04:16:18 PM
well good grief !
some days just are a mess...my thoughts are with you.
...tomorrow is another day.   : )
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: slccom on July 18, 2012, 04:25:49 PM
I can loan you one of my dogs. They are great for cuddling. I hope tomorrow is a better day! Hugs, Sharon
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: iraisin on July 18, 2012, 04:28:14 PM
Sounds like you and Daddy need some ice cream with that liquid chocolate stuff that gets hard when it gets cold. mmmmm, mmmm.

Hubby needs a day out fishing with the guys and he'll feel better. You need our shoulders to cry on, use them. Daddy...well, with your heart, you'll figure that out...just don't let him feed your uplights in the yard again. He probably needs feel productive, maybe give him something little to do if he's able.

I feel worthless and like a bother when I can contribute. That actually may help your husband and your dad. I don't know.

We love you. We want your sad to turn to a happy soon. Ice cream, eat more ice cream (or sorbet, or gelato) ;D
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: Sleepy In Seattle on July 18, 2012, 04:35:22 PM
 :-[

[[[[[[HUGS, CUDDLES, HOLDS....]]]]]]]]] :-*

I'm sorry - that is really cruddy. You deserve a whole bunch of really GREAT days after what you've been through lately. Maybe tomorrow will be one of them...and today is almost over, so kiss it goodbye and and know they're not ALL like that, thank goodness!

Wish some of us could be there to bring you warm brownies and sunflowers..... :-\
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: gmomjuju on July 18, 2012, 04:42:02 PM
Judging from my prednisone days....I think your prednisone is talking.

I like the ice cream idea suggested.

Judy
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: Cricket on July 18, 2012, 04:43:15 PM
Sass

My friend it is ok to be sad, even though it makes me sad that you are sad.

Maybe tell your dad how much he could be a help to you, if he is not able to do much then tell him being there to love you through this time is very important to you.  Tell him you may have a hubby but there is no one in the world like your daddy!!

I know you know it is the meds (predisone) making you feel so out of sorts, if it continues call your dr. and tell him how bad it is maybe he has something to give you to help you.

And here are some gentle hugs: hug, hug, hug, hug,hug hug, and a big squeeze:  S Q U E E Z E!!!!!!!
And of course lots of prayers for you, daddy and hubby!!

Love you girlfriend
Cricket
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: gold55 on July 18, 2012, 06:04:58 PM
I say ice cream and a couple dogs does the trick every time!!!
hoping tomorrow will bring you happy thoughts :)
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: Gayle on July 18, 2012, 06:50:04 PM
Oh Sass, you do know it's the meds and you can and will feel better. Ask the Dr's if this does not go away... Icecream with dad and hubby will help :) Give your dad a 'job' to do. Even if just getting you a drink, watering the plants, dishing up the icecream,  etc.... Hubby does need a day out too... maybe time to go find you a puppy... his choice... my snuggle bugs keep me normal... what ever that is. :) Sending hugs and prayers and virtual icecream and warm puppy breath kisses.

Rest sweetie, you will be fine...

gayle
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: Carolina on July 18, 2012, 06:57:57 PM
Oh Sass angel,

You are so wise.

And going through so much.

Hugs and cuddles and kitties and dogs.

Icecream and love.

AND time will heal some of the breaches between you and family.  Just be patient.

Everyone is terribly stressed. 

Keep us posted.

Hugs

Elaine
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: susanep on July 18, 2012, 08:12:47 PM
If you do all of the above you are sure to feel better real soon. I hope you do. Just think of some little special things to do for yourself. Tell the men in your life how special they are.  ;)

susanep :)
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: sass on July 18, 2012, 08:13:57 PM
 
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

thanks y'all....sigh,   "DAISY"         ~sass~
Title: Re: sass has a sad!!!
Post by: Reanne on July 18, 2012, 11:49:21 PM
(((sass )))) Daisy