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Title: Betrayal
Post by: WildThing on June 16, 2012, 11:34:42 AM
Shockingly, someone I have been talking to online for nearly 10 years and have grown close to has stabbed me in the back, betrayed a confidence and caused me a lot of trouble.  I feel hurt and also kind of numb as I have known this person for so long and am pretty sure this means or friendship is over.  I can never trust this person with anything again.
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Scottietottie on June 16, 2012, 04:48:13 PM
That's a horrible thing to have happened. Online 'friends' can cause a heap of trouble. I've seen it happen with kids at work. I'm truly sorry it's happened to you though.

Take care - Scottie
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Gayle on June 16, 2012, 05:09:29 PM
So sorry Wildthing...

I have been betrayed by those closest to me.. I have to say I pretty much trust no one.. I think that is sad but have to feel that way. Maybe one day...

Gayle
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: eye2dry on June 17, 2012, 09:11:30 AM
It's terrible that not only to have to be watchful of people you know personally but online friendships as well.

Sorry this has happened.



eye2dry
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: lynnmarie219 on June 17, 2012, 11:37:34 AM
So sorry this happened to you...betrayal of any kind is so very hurtful and damaging. 
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Meld256 on June 17, 2012, 10:14:28 PM
I'm so sorry this happened to you, WildThing.  It hurts so much to have someone betray your trust, especially when it seems you had become very close.

Sometimes I can never figure out what something must think before doing that.
Sending you a soft hug.

Melinda
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: WildThing on June 18, 2012, 05:40:34 AM
Thanks guys, it's still sinking in I think but I guess I will get used to it.  I'm ok now, the trouble that was caused has been sorted but still I've lost a friend.
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Ark mom on June 19, 2012, 07:12:22 PM
I'll be your friend.  I don't eat much and have few bad habits.  :p

Sorry about your loss!  I'm glad you are feeling better.  Hugs. 
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: WildThing on June 20, 2012, 08:06:09 AM
Are you house trained Ark Mom?  :P
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Ark mom on June 20, 2012, 05:03:16 PM
WT, yes, for now, that is.  I make no promises. ;)
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Gayle on June 21, 2012, 04:30:25 AM
WT and AM
You guys are so funny.. My first laugh of the day which was sooo needed! Thanks!
Gayle
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: WildThing on June 22, 2012, 12:01:48 PM
Quote from: Ark mom on June 20, 2012, 05:03:16 PM
WT, yes, for now, that is.  I make no promises. ;)

Fine. Your hired, but any messing on my floor and there'll be trouble.
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Patze on June 23, 2012, 08:22:43 PM
I too am sorry to hear about your former friend, that sure does stink!

I'm also glad that things are looking up and I'm pretty sure that Ark mom will make a good friend too. :D


Patze
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: Duchess on June 24, 2012, 01:18:16 PM
I am truly sorry that this happened to you. You know, it can take sooooooo long to build up a relationship like that, then, KABOOM! It goes to pieces.

Hope you heal soon and move along.



Duchess
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: JakeL on June 25, 2012, 07:47:23 PM
I'm really sorry this happened to you. I know it's tough. I've had it happen to me one time, too.
But if they're that kind of person, they you're better off w/o them, even if it doesn't feel that way at first!
Title: Re: Betrayal
Post by: WildThing on July 06, 2012, 06:36:25 AM
Thanks guys, I'm still trying to get used to being without him, not heard a word since, no apology no 'how are you?'  nothing.  I guess I've seen his true colours so to speak. He's always been a little selfish but now this really takes the biscuit.