and my Dad is finally resting in peace. He was diagnosed with lung cancer last December. I flew to Idaho to say my goodbyes in August and it pained me to see him suffer so horribly. :'(
I was crossing the Bay Bridge in San Francisco when I got the call, telling me that his suffering was over, which is very fitting. You see, my Dad always expressed his wish to be cremated and his ashes spread in the Pacific Ocean. That way, he said, every time I thought of him, I could put a flower in any river and it would reach him.
For all of those Hospice workers that lovingly care for the dying--thank you for all that you do.
I'm truly sorry for your loss. You have my prayers and condolences.
BonusMom - My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Dad.
Having to say goodbye to our parents is one of the hardest things we have to do.
May your Dad rest in peace with no more pain and suffering.
Hugs,
Bucky
My thoughts are with you and your family Bonusmum. It is very special that you took the call there and this will be a comfort for you in the months ahead. So glad that you were able to visit, even if it was so hard to bear. Much love to you XX Ailsa
I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sorry for your loss Bonusmom. We lost my father in law to Cancer last January. I agree, Hospice workers, do a wonderful job. I am glad they were available.
Seeker
Bonusmum
What a lovely way for you to be able to remember your father. Thank God, he's at peace now. Will be thinking about you and sending up a prayer for you and your dad.
Kathyx
So sorry for the loss of your father. It seems you will have many opportunities to remember your dad fondly.
Anna
My heart is with you!
I am glad his suffering is over and his wishes will be carried out,,, at this moment while I write this,, I send my heartfelt condolences,, Make your Dad proud,, live life
Bonusmom:
My deepest and most sincere condolences on the loss of your father. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers,
Hugs,
Daisy
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz
I am sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. Hang on to those good memories.
so sorry to hear about your loss
I am sorry for your loss.
Sue Ann
BonusMom, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It is such a painful journey to see those we love suffer. My father died from cancer last November. I am saying a special prayer right now for you and your family. A great big hug, too.
Linda
I am sorry for your loss. It is so very hard to say good-bye to our parents, keeping you and your family in our hearts and prayers.
Cricket
Bonus Mom, Your Dad's wishes offer a sense of serene tranquillity and my trust through the coming years is you will have many good memories of him surface. My best to you and your family members.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Your father's love will always be with you, and your memories of happy times together will comfort you as you grieve and heal.
Genko
Bonusmom,
God bless you and your family in the loss of your dad. I'm so sorry.
Cheryl
Dear Bonusmom,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy to you and your loved ones at this most difficult time.
...wishing you and yours comfort during this difficult time. You are in our prayers.
Hugs,
LeoLady
I'm happy for him ... sad for you.
You'll be together again someday.
Something to look forward to ...
Bonusmum
Condolences - its a hard time for any family but can also bring them close.
Take care - Scottie
My deepest sympathies. I know first hand how hard it is to lose your father. Knowing he is no longer suffering will bring you comfort. Hugs.
BonusMom -
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Love the idea of throwing a flower into the ocean as a remembrance!
Hugs,
Julie
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Dearest BonusMom
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. My heart goes out to you at this sad time. It was so moving to read about your Dad's wishes and I know I'll think of him and of you next time I see flowers in a river.
Take good care of yourself - Chickpea
Dear BonusMom, My heartfelt sympathy. When we lose our parents we feel like orphans. It is hard but something we all know will happen. May you have fond memories in your heart always. Irish
I'm so sorry for your loss.