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Title: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Poochie on February 14, 2010, 01:57:15 PM
I would like to ask you all to keep good thoughts and send some prayers my daughter Penny's way on Friday. 

She going for her disability hearing on Friday and this is the third time.  She has a lawyer this time and we are all praying she gets it this time.  She and her husband have been real tough times these past 3 years and they are about to lose their home because she can no longer work.  On top of my son-in-law trying to work his regular job and side jobs on weekends, he was struck broadside by a driver in a pickup that ran a stop sign.  After spending a week in the ICU he continues to try to work and keep up with things but they really need this disability for my daughter. 

Please say a prayer and keep good thoughts for her on Friday, the 19th.  With all the spinal injuries and the growths in her lungs and kidneys, plus the Fibro, the progressive loss of use of her legs and arms, she has really been in pain.  She's 48 and has been fighting this for the past 17 years. 

Why does it take a legal army to convince this judges that she truly needs this. 

Thank you,

Pooh
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: harrigan on February 14, 2010, 02:13:56 PM
Hoping it wil be 3rd time lucky for your daughter Pooh.  It sounds like she has really been through a lot and her husband too.  It shouldn't be so hard for honest, hard-working people to be supported when the need is so clear.  Will be thinking of you all this week and saying a prayer on Friday XX Ailsa
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Patze on February 14, 2010, 02:41:03 PM
Hi Pooh,

I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter and son-in-law, and I'll sure keep them in my thoughts and prayers!  And yep, my fingers, toes, and knees are crossed for Friday!


Patze
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: lynnmarie219 on February 14, 2010, 03:57:43 PM
Lots of good thoughts, positive vibes and a few prayers too for your daughter and son in law on Friday Pooh. I agree with what harrigan said "It shouldn't be so hard for honest, hard-working people to be supported when the need is so clear".

Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Dolly Dimples on February 14, 2010, 04:26:22 PM
  Dear Pooh, Here's more good wishes and prayers for your daughter on Friday.

               I can imagine your worry , as we have had lot's of unemployment here in the UK,

                         and my own  have suffered , but this is sheer madness to expect people to manage when so sick.
                             
                              Pray that common sense and a little humanity wins the day..
                                                     Lots a luck, Dolly
                                         
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Scottietottie on February 14, 2010, 04:50:13 PM
Pooh - all thoughts concentrated for Penny on the 19th  It's incomprehensible that it's had to go to a third hearing!! I just hope she gets what she justly deserves.

Tae care - Scottie
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Cheryl on February 14, 2010, 05:11:27 PM
Pooh,
  I'll pray that things will go well for Penny and her husband.   They could use a break!
Cheryl
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: RobinBat on February 14, 2010, 05:39:36 PM
Will keep them in my prayers and thoughts, I know how hard it is, I have a good friend going thru the same situation....
Good luck to them.
Robin
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: louisa on February 14, 2010, 05:54:32 PM
Really thinking of your daughter. Its not fair that when you feel so unwell, you have to fight for your rights like this. In the uk, people apply to the Government departments for benefits and can get turned down but at least we do not have to have a lawyer on board although i am given to understand the appeals process is very lengthy as well. Certainly some illnesses are flatly refused first, second or even third time and some people i know just give up applying as it impacts on the illness so much. So i am sending you all some good thoughts.
Lou x
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: susanep on February 14, 2010, 07:55:07 PM
I have sent my prayers, and will continue too. I pray for everyone that is going through a tough time. It's hard to have to be so sick and have to worry about money. God Bless

susanep :)
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: kimbo on February 14, 2010, 08:05:38 PM
Hey Pooh,

Prayers .....May an Army of angels breath justice into the Judge that will be determining the future of your daughter and family.

So sorry you have this stress on your sweet mothering heart.  I pray peace for your well being and rest for your body and spirit.

May you stay well and strong.   Hugs, kimbo
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: irish on February 14, 2010, 08:15:40 PM
Poochie, Oh my gosh, I did not realize that your daughter was having such bad health issues. And her husband also. I can't believe their bad luck. I will most certainly keept them in my thoughts and prayers and also the 19th as she applies for disability. Hopefully this time will be the magical one. Irish ;D
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: genko_b on February 14, 2010, 08:32:20 PM
We will definitely keep all of your family in our thoughts and prayers and wish for a successful outcome this time. It is unimaginable what they have gone through, and with their home in jeopardy on top of all that.

Take care,

Genko
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: salsen on February 14, 2010, 08:40:08 PM
Pooh,
My prayers go out for your daughter Penney that this time she will be approved.  Most especially I will pray that those hearing her case.  I pray they will open their minds to the facts and open their hearts to her suffering.  I still to this day do not understand how people are approved.  Some who seem to need it the most, have to fight the hardest to be approved.  Your family will be prayed for everyday this week.  Please let us know how things go for Penney.
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Bernice on February 14, 2010, 09:48:13 PM
I 'm too praying that ALL goes well for your daughter and SIL. I pray that she is abe to get money dating back since she first applied all these years ago, hoping that it will be a blessing so that they can have a fresh start.

Peace & Be Blessed!
Bernice
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: eyeamdry on February 14, 2010, 11:11:28 PM
Pooh, I, too have the hopes and prayers all the others do for Penny and your SIL.  It is really tough when your kids are down and out.  My daughter has been out of work for one year!  Has had 2 or 3 interviews.  With this, she is Type I diabetic and has seizure disorder--so she may have to start that route.

With all us pulling for her, it just should work out!!! Lucy
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Poochie on February 19, 2010, 07:13:34 AM
Please keep those good thoughts and prayers coming.  We are getting ready to leave for the capitol in a few minutes for the hearing.  The lawyer wants her there a little early to talk to her before they go before the judge. 

The official time for the hearing is 2 p.m. so I will let you all know how things went when I get home. 

Thanks to all for their support.  I think I'll sleep for a week after this over.  I know she will. 

Hugs, and thanks,
Pooh
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Bucky on February 19, 2010, 07:44:26 AM
Pooh . . . best of luck to Penny and her family - sending lots of good vibes and prayers her way.

I'm sure you will crash this weekend . . . take care of yourself too!!  Hang in there Mom!

Hugs,
Bucky
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Poochie on February 19, 2010, 03:17:39 PM
Well.........it's been a long day.  We arrived at the hearing room at 1:15 and waited for her lawyer to come to go over things before going into the judge.

We waited, and we waited and we waited some more.  The other cases were running about 30 minutes behind and by 2:15 her lawyer had still not shown.  She called the office to see why and the lawyer's assistant informed my daughter that she wasn't on the calendar for today.  And that she took full responsibility because she had missed putting it on her boss's schedule. 

Ask what she was suppose to do now, she was told to ask for a continuance.  My daughter said, "no, I will not".  "I've waited 5 yrs. now, and I won't wait another day".  With encouragement from her husband, Dad, daughter and Mom.  She wiped her tears and headed for the hearing room. 

15 minutes later she and hubby emerged with the biggest smiles you have ever seen.  Upon hearing from the baliff that my daughter's attorney was a no show, he agreed to hear her case from her directly.  After going over her papers and asking her about 4 questions, he said to her "You have hereby won your case and your disability claim is hereby granted." "Also let it be read into the records, that you are not to pay your attorney anything, not one dime". 

SHE WON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! all on her own and she gets to keep the attorney fees. 

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU EVERYONE for putting in those good thoughts and prayers.  It's been a long 5 yrs.  She won.

Hugs to all, Pooh
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: navydad on February 19, 2010, 03:38:18 PM
Good for her
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: genko_b on February 19, 2010, 03:44:43 PM
Congratulations to all of you, Pooh! What wonderful news. I've been thinking of you all week and hoping it would go well. Thanks for the report. Rest up and then go celebrate. Yeah!

Genko
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: eyeamdry on February 19, 2010, 03:52:40 PM
From the depths of despair to the heights of getting a paycheck all in a few minutes.  (I know it's been a long, long run.)  Congrats to your daughter and her family, you and your hubby for standing by her all this time.  Congrats to the judge who did the right thing.  Actually thanks to the lawyer for messing up....It probably put several thousands more in your daughter's pocket.  I can imagine the fright you all had for that period of time.  Lucy
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Prairie Gal on February 19, 2010, 03:59:27 PM
What wonderful news about your daughter!   It was also great to hear she is to pay the attorney nothing.  After 5 years, that's small compensation for your daughter's suffering, but it's a step in the right direction.

Prairie gal
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Bucky on February 19, 2010, 05:33:42 PM
Pooh . . . . CONGRATULATIONS to you all!!   ;D  When I first started reading your post and got to the point where Penny's lawyer wasn't there - I'm telling the computer screen, "Oh No!!".   Good for Penny standing up for herself and refusing to ask for a continuance.

I know a huge weight has been lifted for all of you, especially Penny, her husband and family.

This calls for a party!!   ;D    Any reason to have cake!  LOL

Have a relaxing weekend.  Tell Penny we're so happy for her.

Hugs,
Bucky
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Cheryl on February 19, 2010, 06:06:35 PM
Pooh,
What a victory!  I'm still grinning from ear to ear, and I'll bet I'm not the only one!
Cheryl
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Scottietottie on February 19, 2010, 06:19:14 PM
Pooh - that is great news. Well done Penny!  :)
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: irish on February 19, 2010, 09:00:02 PM
Poochie, My gosh, if that isn't one for the books. So glad to hear that she won and that she doesn't have to pay the attorney. Bet he won't be very happy!! But who cares. Sure glad that she gets that extra money. Tell her congrats. Irish ;D
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: Poochie on February 20, 2010, 07:18:37 AM
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart.  After all these years, I had feeling you would all be here for me and my family.  I can't tell you how much this has meant to me. 

Please know that all of you are in my nightly prayers always.  I pray one day real soon our Epson will come up with that cure. ;D  I'm sure he is working day and night.  Thanks Epson.

I can only say to those of you trying for your disability, NEVER GIVE UP.  If at first you don't succeed, TRY, TRY, again.  My daughter did and she finally won after 5yrs. and 3 tries.

Hugs to all, Pooh
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: harlin on February 20, 2010, 07:23:50 AM
That's wonderful news!!!! So happy for her, it is always the people who need it the most have the hardest time.
Hugs harlin
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: harrigan on February 20, 2010, 12:48:16 PM
Oh Pooh - that is such good news!  Well done to you all for seeing it through to a successful ending.  You are such a lovely mum  ;D  Hope that you all get to relax and unwind this weekend XX Ailsa
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: lynnmarie219 on February 20, 2010, 02:47:23 PM
Oh Pooh,

I was so happy to read the good news...I got goose bumps hearing that your daughter Penny got what she really has been waiting for and so deserved and that the judge did the right thing and that she stood up for herself and did it with the help of her wonderful family and without her attorney who will not get paid! Whewwwww...I could go on and on....it was the right thing all the way around...and good to hear!


Thanks for letting us know...give Penny a cyber hug from me and one to you as well Pooh! This really  made my day!
Title: Re: Would appreciate good thoughts and prayers
Post by: RobinBat on February 23, 2010, 05:26:34 PM
Congratulations! So glad it all worked out so well!!
Robin