Karen, oh i wish you could remember too. Would be helpful.
Irish, I totally agree that it is cruel and should not be said. I only mention these things because I think that we need to bring more awareness to some of the possibilities of complications of Sjogrens syndrome. There needs to be a wake call of sorts.
By no means will this define ME.. I am in the early stages of Constrictive Bronchiolitis. I am a happy, tough and a fighter. And you will go far to find someone more positive and loves to live life than me. Now, I will admit that I have had some weak moments that things cross my mind and especially with the prednisone on board I have a breakdown. That is one of those times that I really need you guys here. To prop me back up.
But, I bounce back pretty quick. And when I do, I would be remiss to hide the information at my hands and not share it with others. Do I always do it in the right form..probably not, as I am human and get passionate about really truly wanting to help others. And I have and will always feel that education and information is imperative in helping fight for a cause or have joy in a birth or have the right way to treat a wound.
I also know that I am one of the minority that information on these illnesses or not scary for the most part to me. I find some much of it fascinating and helpful.
And harrigan, I focus on living each and every second with laughter and joy. Sjogren's does not have me, but a complication of Sjogrens has my lungs. And I am not going to allow it to define me. I will beat it and go on to tell the world of God's miracles.
He has brought me through 2 brain tumors, cancer, several diseases of the autoimmune, given me two absolutely wonderful children that back then I was told would never happen, I seek ed out a doctor that helped me work through it . I could go on, but none of that is what is important. I LOVE MY LIFE AND EVERYONE IN IT!
And I have to say again that there are so many issues with Sjogrens that because of the lack of studies being done, that are being overlooked or swept under the rug. Why, here on Sjogrens World if you for to the Home page, and click on CNS articles you will read about so many right HERE. Which in fact is where I get most of my information and then that leads to to the links that are posted.
I feel like when you do a Goggle on Sjogrens syndrome and read that it causes dry mouth and dry eyes and can effect your saliva, well no wonder people have thought this syndrome is nothing. Even the word syndrome, In medicine and psychology, a syndrome is the association of several clinically recognizable features.
So when I read of the suffering that so many here do, (a drop in the bucket) the flairs, the loss of jobs and homes and time with their families and mostly the guilt that they have that goes with all of that and then adding that I KNOW SOME OF THE WAYS SJOGRENS CAN DAMAGE, yes I feel a greatly ignored. And quite possibly there are all kinds of studies being done that I am aware of. But the explanations to the General Public with and without Sjogrens needs to be adjusted. Our White Blood Cells are DESTROYING our autoimmune systems. Some peoples are doing it slow and easy and some are doing it with a vengeance. That is exactly why I am focusing on LIVING with what I've got, not dying with it. But I want that for every single person that has any kind of disease.
As an advocate , I have a responsibility to help others. It is my calling and my mission in life. And I gotta say it's a durn good one..and it is a most excellent life! ~sass~
sorry iraisin for stealing in on your thread.