OK - I've been silently following this thread to see what you ladies are saying.

It really is a tough search to find the "right" bra . . one that fits the girls and supports them. And, yes, it varies by manufacturer as to the size and fit.
Several years ago, while on vacation in TN, I stopped at the L'eggs Hanes Bali outlet mall and they have staff that can "fit" you for the right bra. Finding the right bra is like shoe shopping or finding the right pair of capri's/jeans . . . . soooooo many different kinds to pick from!

Another thing to think about . . . do you throw your bras into the dryer? I always line dry mine.
Recently, I have a different problem - lopsided girls.

One side a tad bit larger than the other - which can be difficult when you would need two different cups. They should make "mix and match" bras where you can hook them together to accommodate the differences. Unfortunately, I had to resort to going with the larger size cup to accommodate the larger size as I don't like muffin top in my bras!!

Sigh . . . the things we women have to put up with.

Bucky