Kim, you do have quite a few good points.
I wouldn't be in this predicament if it didn't take over 4 months to get in to see a physician.
Now I did tons of research on this medication before I made the decision to take it. It is prescribed for treatment of Sjogren's, although it has for the most part been phased out for Plaquenil. It is more toxic but is still considered the "most safe immunosuppressant." I am only taking 150mg base of Aralen which is lower than the standard dose recommended.
And while my dry mouth and dry eyes have only improved moderately, my skin has definitely improved greatly. It's not a placebo effect.
I've had no side effects at all so far, no nausea or headaches, or upset stomaches.